System and method for providing a system that includes on-line and off-line features in a network environment

ABSTRACT

An apparatus for coordinating a relationship in a network environment is provided that includes a central web site operable to interface with one or more end users and to manage information related to one or more of the end users. The central web site includes an on-line component and an off-line component such that one or more of the end users can communicate and gather information about each other at the central web site and the central web site can facilitate a meeting in person between two of the end users.

TECHNICAL FIELD OF THE INVENTION

This invention relates in general to the field of communications and, more particularly, to a system and a method for providing a system that includes on-line and off-line features in a network environment.

BACKGROUND OF THE INVENTION

Networking architectures have grown increasingly complex in communications environments. In recent years, a series of protocols and configurations have been developed in order to accommodate a diverse group of end users having various networking needs. Many of these architectures have gained significant notoriety because they can offer the benefits of automation, convenience, management, and enhanced consumer selections.

Certain network protocols may be used in order to allow an end user to conduct an on-line search of candidates to fill a given vacancy. These protocols may relate to job searches, person finding services, real estate searches, or on-line dating. While some naive business people believe that on-line dating is simply a matter of matching supply and demand, there is statistical and empirical evidence to suggest that successful on-line dating entails far more.

For example, people having similar and/or compatible character traits and values should be matched together. However, effectively linking two participants together can prove to be a challenging endeavor. Coordinating a relationship between two like-minded individuals can be a significant chore, as there are a number of obstacles and barriers that must be overcome.

It would also be beneficial to counsel certain users about a dating deficiency that they may have. In addition, it may be useful to compile, process, and maximize all feedback information that is given by an end user such that this information can be evaluated and then leveraged in order to deliver an optimal candidate selection or match pool to the end user.

In still other scenarios, participants in an on-line dating scenario may need guidance on making arrangements for a first date. Suggestions and recommendations are welcomed by participants who are unsure of which dating location would be appropriate for both participants. Most end users would also appreciate being afforded the opportunity to exit the dating experience at any time. Still other end users would enjoy reading candid responses from a prospective mate, while simultaneously having some control over the questions being asked.

These operations (and many others) need to be accounted for by a system operator in order to achieve a suitable level of satisfaction from their customers. Systems that fail to account for these issues can mislead their customers, frustrate their clients, and waste the time of all those involved. Note that any features provided by a given dating platform should be easily understood and readily used by the consumer. The end user should not be burdened with complex or cryptic technology that he has to decipher before utilizing. Accordingly, the ability to provide effective mechanisms and features for optimally matching in an on-line community offers a significant challenge to web site operators, component manufacturers, and system designers.

SUMMARY OF THE INVENTION

From the foregoing, it may be appreciated by those skilled in the art that a need has arisen for an improved communications platform that provides for more beneficial features in offering networking services and capabilities to an end user. In accordance with one embodiment of the present invention, a system and a method for providing an on-line dating platform in a network environment are provided that greatly reduce disadvantages and problems associated with conventional on-line dating management techniques.

According to one embodiment of the present invention, a method for providing a feature in a network environment is provided that includes a central web site operable to interface with one or more end users and to manage information related to one or more of the end users. The web site includes an interest rating component that allows one or more of the end users to indicate a level of interest in one or more of the other end users.

In more particular embodiments, the interest rating component is provided as a graphical illustration that reflects a slider bar to be used by one or more of the end users in order to make selections or designations about potential dating candidates. In still more particular embodiments, if the slider bar is moved in one direction, indicating a strong preference for a particular candidate, then the particular candidate is moved to an active state where a relationship between two of the end users progresses. If the slider bar is moved to in another direction, indicating a low level of interest for a particular candidate, then the particular candidate is moved to an inactive state where a relationship between two of the end users does not continue. A designation of the slider bar by one of the end users represents a quantitative value to be processed by the central web site. The central web site can use the interest rating component to match two of the end users that have substantially similar interest ratings.

Certain embodiments of the present invention may provide a number of technical advantages. For example, according to one embodiment of the present invention, a service approach is provided that allows a given end user to utilize a level of interest rating component. An interest level slider bar can be used by the end user in order to make selections or designations about potential dating candidates. The slider bar is easy to use and can solicit the end user's thoughts about a prospective mate. The level of interest bar is conducive to an expedient disposal of individuals that offer minimal intrigue for the end user. In a similar fashion, the level of interest bar can be readily utilized in order to initiate the next step in the dating process.

Another advantage of the present invention is that the end user is provided with a number of comparison features. For example, in some embodiments, a personality profile can be displayed to the end user concurrently with the personality profile of a potential candidate. Using such a comparison/contrast format, the end user could readily see how his interests and character traits are aligned or asymmetrical: either of which may produce positive or negative outcomes. Other comparisons (or overlay formats) can be provided by the question/answer sections of the dating platform. Note that many of the questions being answered by a given participant may be pre-selected by the interested participant (or chosen by their own accord). This offers a higher degree of control for the end user and also focuses on issues that are truly important to each individual. Many of these features are discussed in greater detail below with reference to corresponding FIGURES.

Yet another advantage of the present invention relates to a post-date follow up features. The responses from the post-date follow up are an invaluable tool for the operator of the website. The responses reflect important character traits that can be fed back into the system for future matches. Additionally, the operator can offer constructive feedback to an end user who appears to be struggling in some area of dating. In one implementation, a cumulative average (e.g. after three or more dates) could be taken of several post-date questions, whereby a single area can be pinpointed for improvement. This is verifiable, informative, and truthful dating information for the end user to consider.

Note that there is a plethora of additional advantages that are provided by the tendered architecture. Some of these advantages are evident after reviewing the FIGURES and accompanying discussions. Certain embodiments of the present invention may enjoy some, all, or none of these outlined advantages. Other technical advantages may be readily apparent to one skilled in the art from the following figures, description, and claims.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION OF THE DRAWINGS

To provide a more complete understanding of the present invention and features and advantages thereof, reference is made to the following description, taken in conjunction with the accompanying figures, wherein like reference numerals represent like parts, in which:

FIG. 1 is a simplified block diagram of a system for providing an on-line dating service in accordance with one embodiment of the present invention;

FIGS. 2A-H are simplified screen shots of an example protocol for participating in an on-line dating service;

FIGS. 3A-B are simplified screen shots of an example profile to be used in the on-line dating service;

FIGS. 4A-C are simplified screen shots involving an example personality profile to be used in the on-line dating service;

FIG. 5 is a simplified screen shot of an example home page for an end user of the on-line dating service;

FIGS. 6A-B are simplified screen shots of an example “Interested In You” profile to be used in the on-line dating service;

FIG. 6C is an example schematic that shows how the “Interested In You” component can operate in one implementation;

FIGS. 7A-H are simplified screen shots of an example listing of active matches to be used in the on-line dating service;

FIG. 8 is a simplified screen shot of an example summary profile to be used in the on-line dating service;

FIGS. 9A-B are simplified screen shots of an example full profile to be used in the on-line dating service;

FIG. 10 is a simplified screen shot of an example matching protocol to be used in the on-line dating service;

FIG. 11 is a simplified screen shot of an example photograph to be used in the on-line dating service;

FIG. 12 is a simplified screen shot of an example slider bar to be used in the on-line dating service;

FIGS. 13A-D are simplified screen shots of example relationship essentials to be used in the on-line dating service;

FIG. 14 is a simplified screen shot of an example short answer introduction to be used in the on-line dating service;

FIGS. 15A-C are simplified screen shots of example short answer questions to be used in the on-line dating service;

FIG. 16 is a simplified screen shot of an example short answer response to be used in the on-line dating service;

FIG. 17 is a simplified screen shot of an example “Ready To Meet” introduction to be used in the on-line dating service;

FIGS. 18A-B are simplified screen shots of an example pre-date profile and scheduling protocol to be used in the on-line dating service;

FIG. 19 is a simplified screen shot of an example pre-date confirmation to be used in the on-line dating service;

FIG. 20 is a simplified screen shot of an example suggestion of where to meet to be used in the on-line dating service;

FIG. 21 is a simplified screen shot of an example post-date questionnaire to be used in the on-line dating service;

FIG. 22 is a simplified screen shot of an example limited search criteria template to be used in the on-line dating service;

FIGS. 23A-S are simplified screen shots of an example introductory phase to be used in the on-line dating service; and

FIGS. 24A-G are simplified screen shots of an example pre-date phase to be used in the on-line dating service.

DETAILED DESCRIPTION OF EXAMPLE EMBODIMENTS OF THE INVENTION

FIG. 1 is a simplified block diagram of a system 10 for facilitating an on-line dating scenario in a network environment. In other embodiments, system 10 can be leveraged to identify and to evaluate suitable candidates in other areas (e.g. hiring/employment, recruiting, real estate, general person searches, etc.). FIG. 1 includes multiple end users 12, a communications network 14, a central web site 18, and a supplemental web site 20. FIG. 1 may be configured such that inter and intra-communications are readily achieved by any of the components included therein. The present invention is capable of providing both an on-line component (as illustrated by FIG. 1) and an off-line component (as described below) such that one or more end users can meet, gather information, resolve to meet, and then subsequently meet in person with the assistance of system 10. Ancillary components to such a comprehensive process may involve pre-date profiles, post-date follow-ups, and a myriad of other significant features, as outlined in greater detail below.

System 10 can be used to offer a multitude of unique features and capabilities to a group of end users. A brief summary of some of these features is offered immediately below. Additional details relating to each of these tools is discussed more fully with reference to the accompanying FIGURES.

A first feature provided by system 10 relates to a “Level of Interest Rating.” An end user is provided with a web prompt (e.g. a slider bar), which solicits the end user's interest level of a potential candidate. The scale can range from “No Interest” to “High Interest” or system 10 can use any other gradation where appropriate. Such an interest-ometer stands in stark contrast to other rudimentary systems in which a simple match is generated based on profile information. Moreover, prior architectures process according to strict compatibility, but fail to accommodate the interest component. Consider the case where a person's profile information would suggest one potential mate, but their interest bar resultants yield an attraction to a completely different type of individual. System 10 effectively accounts for such a discrepancy (and others) in offering a superior method of matching two individuals.

The indicated interest can be sent to system 10 and, further, be used in additional processing for this end user. In such a scenario, feedback from the interest bar can be aggregated, compiled, and processed for the future coordination of potential matches. Hence, a reevaluation protocol is facilitated by continuing to leverage results from the interest bar.

A second feature provided by system 10 relates to multi-tiered questions. Along the dating continuum, several levels of questions are proffered for the end user. During the unique questioning protocol, preferred answers are selected by one candidate and then the other potential candidate receives the questions that include these answers. The questions/stages can be completed in pairs. The results are then displayed in a novel way, whereby selections from one candidate are illustrated along with the other candidate's responses. This scale (or seesaw configuration) readily displays the differences, the range of differences, and/or the congruency in the answers. Note that the “Not Interested” bar is displayed throughout the dating process such that the end user can exit the romantic pursuit at any given time. The discussion of this second feature is amenable to detailed illustrations, which are discussed below.

A third feature provided by system 10 relates to a resolution to a meeting. Lacking in most system is any method for facilitating a meeting after the first three stages of interaction have been finished. System 10 addresses this void by offering a pre-date profile for the participants to complete. Optimal date, time, cuisine, and other preferences can be solicited from both parties. Once a mutually agreeable date has been planned, the parties are invited to meet at the proposed time, place, and location. In a particular embodiment, during the course of the date, a courtesy phone call may be placed to either of the participants (or a specific participant at their request) in order to indicate that the date has ended. Note that a first date may only be for coffee; so once the allotted time has passed, the meeting should conclude. In another embodiment, such a call could be used to provide a graceful exit for a party who is experiencing an uncomfortable situation.

A fourth feature provided by system 10 relates to a post-date evaluation. Once the date is completed, the parties can return to the site and fill out a post-date follow up evaluation. This may be inclusive of questions that relate to appearance, punctuality, chemistry, etc. A sampling of these questions is provided and discussed below with reference to corresponding FIGURES. A second date solicitation could also readily be provided at this point along the dating timeline. Additionally, a dating report card could be provided to each of the end users. This could be done in order to provide benign, constructive feedback to an end user, who may be experiencing difficulty in one particular facet of his dating approach (e.g. the end user may be counseled to focus on being a better listener).

A fifth feature provided by system 10 relates to an “Interested in You” component. The “Interested in You” component is broken into two segments: 1) Match List; and 2) Interested in You. Other on-line dating platforms simply populate matches concurrently. In the architecture of system 10, the interest level is separated from the “want to meet” element. The other candidate only receives an e-mail if the interest level is positive (e.g. greater than 7 [scale 1-10]). Negative interest levels are not communicated to the other potential match. These functionalities can be better understood with reference to accompanying illustrations and the discussions that are provided below.

A sixth feature provided by system 10 relates to a limited search, which can be conducted by a participant. The limited search may be somewhat constricted (e.g. only one limited search per day). The limited search capability would allow an end user to seek out individuals having an exact qualification or a specific characteristic. This would achieve a level of granularity for the end user, who may have precise criteria for choosing a romantic interest to pursue. Additional platform tools, capabilities, and features are provided below and are discussed with reference to accompanying FIGURES. These elements are described immediately following the subsequent description of the components of the architecture of FIG. 1.

End users 12 are clients, customers, prospective customers, or entities wishing to participate in an on-line dating scenario and/or to view information associated with other participants in the system. End users 12 may also seek to access or to initiate a communication with other users that may be delivered via communications network 14. End users 12 may review data (such as profiles for example) associated with other users in order to make matching decisions or elections. Data, as used herein in this document, refers to any type of numeric, voice, video, or script data, or any other suitable information in any appropriate format that may be communicated from one point to another.

In one embodiment, end user 12 represents (and is inclusive of) a personal computer that may be used to access the Internet. Alternatively, end user 12, as illustrated in FIG. 1, may be representative of a cellular telephone, an electronic notebook, a laptop, a personal digital assistant (PDA), or any other suitable device (wireless or otherwise: some of which can perform web browsing), component, or element capable of accessing one or more elements within system 10. An end user interface, which may be provided in conjunction with the items listed above, may further comprise any suitable interface for a human user such as a display, a video camera, a microphone, a keyboard, a mouse, or any other appropriate terminal equipment according to particular configurations and arrangements. In addition, the end user interface may be a unique element designed specifically for communications involving system 10. Such an element may be fabricated or produced specifically for matching applications involving end user 12.

Communications network 14 is a communicative platform operable to exchange data or information emanating from end user 12. Communications network 14 represents an Internet architecture in a particular embodiment of the present invention, which provides end user 12 with the ability to electronically execute or to initiate actions associated with finding a potential candidate. Alternatively, communications network 14 could be a plain old telephone system (POTS), which end user 12 could use to perform the same operations or functions. Such transactions may be assisted by management associated with central web site 18 or manually keyed into a telephone or other suitable electronic equipment. In other embodiments, communications network 14 could be any packet data network (PDN) offering a communications interface or exchange between any two nodes in system 10. Communications network 14 may alternatively be any local area network (LAN), metropolitan area network (MAN), wide area network (WAN), wireless local area network (WLAN), virtual private network (VPN), intranet, or any other appropriate architecture or system that facilitates communications in a network or telephonic environment.

Central web site 18 is a server (in one embodiment) that is operable to receive and to communicate information to end user 12. Alternatively, central web site 18 may be any switch, router, gateway, processor, component, object, or element operable to facilitate communications involving end user 12. In one particular embodiment, central web site 18 is engaged in facilitating interaction(s) between parties interested in seeking a romantic partner (i.e. on-line dating). For example, central web site 18 can be on-line dating service provider www.Match.com. In other embodiments, central web site 18 is any web site or architecture interested in facilitating a connection involving two or more people, and which may make use of a given photograph. This could include services associated with job placements, escort services, real estate, recruiting services (e.g. in athletics or in academic settings), etc.

Supplemental web site 20 is a server (in one embodiment) that is operable to receive and to communicate information to end user 12. Alternatively, supplemental web site 20 may be any switch, router, gateway, processor, component, object, or element operable to facilitate communications involving end user 12. In one particular embodiment, supplemental web site 20 is operable to perform processing functions for central website 18. For example, supplemental web site 20 can be used to coordinate scheduling, execute matching algorithms, assist in uploading or downloading large pieces of data, implement billing protocols for end users, etc. Supplemental web site 20 can alleviate any of the processing loads present in the network.

A link may be provided on either central web site 18 or supplemental web site 20 (or on both) such that a given end user can be immediately directed to the other site. While one embodiment offers a connection between these two sites, these two sites may be completely independent of each other in other embodiments, where independent entities operate these sites. In the case that these two sites are operable to communicate with each other, a secure connection can be provided in order to maintain the integrity of the information propagating between the sites and to protect the privacy of the individuals implicated by the communications.

With regard to the specific items that effectuate the teachings of the present invention, central web site 18 and/or supplemental web site 20 may include software and/or algorithms to achieve the operations for processing, communicating, delivering, gathering, uploading, maintaining, and/or generally managing data, as described herein. This includes suitably displaying some or all of these items. Alternatively, such operations and techniques may be achieved by any suitable hardware, component, device, application specific integrated circuit (ASIC), additional software, field programmable gate array (FPGA), server, processor, algorithm, erasable programmable ROM (EPROM), electrically erasable programmable ROM (EEPROM), or any other suitable object that is operable to facilitate such operations. Considerable flexibility is provided by the structure of central web site 18 and supplemental web site 20 in the context of system 10. Thus, it can be easily appreciated that such functions could be provided external to central web site 18 and supplemental web site 20. In such cases, such a functionality could be readily embodied in a separate component, server, processor, device, or module. Note that these on-line dating features and capabilities may be provided in just one of these elements, in both, or distributed across both of them. Hence, in certain embodiments, the on-line dating operations may be consolidated in a single web site, where no redirection is needed, nor performed for the user.

In operation of an example flow, consider a case where a given end user is interested in participating in an on-line dating scenario. End user 12 can access the Internet, travel to central web site 18, register, and create a profile on the site. Note that end user 12 may access supplemental web site 20 directly as well. Moreover, end user 12 can access either web site through any suitable banner, pop-up, partnership, e-mail solicitations, direct mailings, etc. It can be appreciated that on-line commerce can be generated by a plethora of marketing tools and any such tools can readily cooperate with the operations of the present invention.

From this point, matching (of any form) can commence amongst the members of the on-line community. For example, in the context of a romantic endeavor, a person may begin the dating process or engage in communications that would spawn such dating. Other applications could include job applicants who are being sought by employers. Any of the individuals who reside in the on-line community can begin using any of the tools or capabilities of the platform.

FIGS. 2A-H illustrate example screen shots that may be provided in the on-line dating process and which may be used for purposes of discussion. It is imperative to note that these illustrations are only being provided to further outline a particular implementation of the present invention. In no way should these diagrams be used to limit or to restrict the broad teachings of the present invention. Such illustrative information has been offered earnestly and, thus, should not be construed to confine the broad applications of the present invention.

FIG. 2A is an example screen shot of a home page in which an interested end user may begin his/her journey. In this example, the home page offers zip code information, as well as a preliminary election of an age and a gender preference. After clicking on the “How it Works” icon on the home page, the end user is directed to the screen shot of FIG. 2B. FIG. 2B is an example screen shot that outlines (generically) the on-line dating process. At a first step, an end user browses the web site. Now interested in participating, the end user then creates a profile. The third step in the process involves subscribing to the service and then receiving information from others who are part of the on-line community.

FIG. 2C is an example screen shot of a number of profiles. In the context of this shot, an end user may be simply browsing. Once an end user has clicked on a given person in this screen, he is directed to FIG. 2D, where he is solicited to sign up for the on-line dating subscription such that he can effectively contact his candidate selection. FIGS. 2E-H are example screen shots of a profile of a given end user. In this instance, her criteria are displayed, as well as other information that may be pertinent to a potential mate. Any suitable items can be provided in such a profile (such as interests, favorite hot spots, favorite things, desire for children, background, etc.). Virtually any information (inclusive of video and audio data) may be provided in such a profile.

FIGS. 3A-B are simplified screen shots of an example profile to be used in the on-line dating platform. The profile includes information that was solicited from this end user (“Todd”) when he set up his on-line dating account. The profile includes general information (e.g. address, height, weight, etc.), as well as a segment that reflects some of Todd's personal feelings or his outlook on the world. This information in these two FIGURES is only a profile summary, whereby a full profile can be stored within system 10 at a different location.

Note the level of interest rating component to FIG. 3A. An interest level slider bar is used by the end user in order to make selections or designations about potential dating candidates. The slider bar is easy to use and can solicit the end user's thoughts about a prospective mate. (Note that such a slider bar is simply a graphical illustration that simplifies the end user's experience. Other graphical illustrations may include (but not be limited to), a knob, a bar-graph representation, or any other chart, symbol, picture, illustration, or object capable of displaying an end user's interest level.) The level of interest bar is conducive to an expedient disposal of individuals that offer minimal intrigue to the end user. In a similar fashion, the level of interest bar can readily be utilized in order to initiate the next step in the dating process.

If the slider is moved to the right (indicating a strong preference for this particular individual), then the person can be moved to an “Active Matches” tab (i.e. a queue), where the relationship progresses to the next level. If the slider is moved to the left (indicating a low level of interest in this individual), then this person can be placed into an “Archive” where the relationship does not continue. Note that an inference can be made based on the level of the slider bar such that a potential candidate can be immediately directed to an end user's active matches. In other embodiments, there is no default to “Active Matches” and the end user must manually make this decision: no matter his level of interest rating. For example, a simple prompt may be provided to the end user such that, for a proffered candidate, the end user makes an election (e.g. by clicking his mouse to make a selection) for “Active Matches” or “Archive.”

The slider bar represents an easy way for an end user to engage in the candidate selection process. Engagement could yield a progression toward a future relationship or it could remove individuals from consideration from an end user's queue. Both of these actions are productive, as both are results-oriented. Deciding not to engage a certain individual is certainly useful, as choices associated with an end user's dislikes are valuable for identifying and proffering new candidates. This feedback information is imperative to achieving a high level of success in an on-line dating environment.

FIGS. 4A-C are simplified screen shots involving an example personality profile to be used in the on-line dating platform. The personality profile reflect a series of fun, probing questions that get to the heart of who the end user is and what the end user seeks or needs. The personality profile explores the complex mix of values, traits, and attitudes that are included in the unique identities and relationship needs for a given group of end users. At the conclusion of the personality profile process, the end user will receive a detailed analysis of their personality profile and a guide to the personality types with whom the end user is most compatible.

In the context of the particular example of FIGS. 4A-C, a given end user's personality profile is illustrated. Hence, this end user (Todd) has completed a questionnaire that revealed his personality type (e.g. director, explorer, builder, negotiator, etc.). The answers to these questions can create a profile or “love map.” For example, Todd is designated as having a major personality type of director and a minor personality type of explorer. The responses from Todd are used to match him to potential mates based on the compatibility or congruency in their traits, as reflected by the results of the test.

Consider the case where congruency is not necessarily optimal in the context of a dating scenario. Todd may be extroverted and excessively social, but if his mate shared this character trait, this situation may be unworkable. Character traits may have complimentary effects, whereby strict commonality would not always produce an ideal relationship connection. In other embodiments, the personality profile of FIGS. 4A-C is displayed to the end user concurrently with the personality profile of a potential candidate. Using such a comparison/contrast format, the end user could readily see how his interests and character traits are aligned or dissimilar.

Characteristics of all four personality types can be found within each person, but there is almost always one personality type that is dominant. This is called the major personality type. The test also identifies minor or secondary personality types. An end user may exhibit some aspects of this personality type, though not to the same degree as with the major personality type. In the context of Todd's personality profile, a pie chart is illustrated to signify his personality makeup. The analysis is based on his responses to a questionnaire provided by system 10. The results here identify Todd's major and minor personality types, as well as the personality types that are most likely to be compatible with his personality.

In this instance, Todd's major personality type=Director and his minor personality type=Explorer. Hence, Todd is a DIRECTOR/explorer, which (in the narrative) indicates: “You are courageous; and you seek challenges. You are a tough-minded, independent, and daring thinker who likes to explore ideas or problems thoroughly. You focus easily. And you are persistent, systematic and competent in pursuing your interests and goals. You also assertive; and you enjoy the opportunities your hard work wins. You have a lot of energy. You think quickly, make decisions more easily than most, dislike unnecessary rules, and take a rational approach to people, issues and ideas. You don't often enjoy “small talk.” You are generally not interested in pleasing boring people and you gravitate to men and women who are intellectually exciting and get to their point quickly during conversations. You are not conventional in most of your attitudes and values. You tend to be irreverent and pragmatic and you like spontaneous people. You can be an exciting, yet hard driving and exacting, friend and companion.”

In addition, in this example Todd is E-Explorer—25%, N-Negotiator—25%, B-Builder—22%, and D-Director—26%. The Explorer element of his personality is known for high energy and high creativity. Explorers seek novelty, risk, and pleasure. Also, Explorers are intellectually curious and not easily swayed by opinion. Todd is also 22% Builder. These Builder individuals are usually popular and have a deep attachment to home and family. Builders exhibit a calm demeanor and low anxiety and are often focused on achieving financial security. Todd is also 25% Negotiator. A Negotiator excels at seeing the big picture, long-term planning, and consensus building. Negotiators are quick witted and intuitive. These individuals are also imaginative and nurturing. Finally, Todd is 26% Director. These individuals are skilled at abstract thinking and short-term planning. Directors are often assertive, competitive, and interested in rank and status. Directors are known for easily making people laugh.

Note that any segment of the test of FIGS. 4A-C can include a Myers Briggs portion for the end user to complete. A Myers Briggs test would reveal some personality traits, which may be beneficial to matching two compatible individuals. Other personality tests could similarly be used in this area of the platform and, thus, are within the broad scope of the present invention.

FIG. 5 is a simplified screen shot of an example home page for an end user of the on-line dating platform. “New Matches” may be based on a compatibility personality profile, which identifies long-term relationship potential through variables such as similar or shared interests, values, background, and goals. Note that the end user's feedback, throughout many of the operations outlined herein, is an integral part of the matching process. The level of interest in potential matches allows system 10 to better understand the end user and what the end user is looking for in a long term relationship. As system 10 accumulates knowledge about the end user's preferences, system 10 leverages intelligence that can refine matching criteria to bring better, more compatible matches to the end user.

As a general proposition, system 10 is designed to learn from end user feedback (e.g. what the end user likes, who the end user likes, what the end user does not like, etc.). Input is integrated into system 10 so that over time system 10 gets a more complete picture of whom exactly the end user is and whom the end user appears to be seeking. System 10 continually learns about the end user. From the first moment the end user makes a dating decision, system 10 begins to gather and compile important data about end user preferences. Throughout the operations of the site, system 10 queries the end user for feedback (e.g. Are you interested in this match? If so, how much? Do you like the way your match answered this question? If not, what is your preferred answer?). Input is immediately processed and used to reevaluate parameters in hopes of offering more compatible matches for the end user to consider.

FIGS. 6A-B are simplified screen shots of an example “Interested In You” profile to be used in the on-line dating platform. In particular, FIG. 6A shows that Kristen has indicated a high level of interest in Todd such that she is now in his “Interested in You” queue. FIG. 6B shows Kristen's complete profile, inclusive of her basic information (address, height, weight, etc.), as well as more personal detailed information about her.

FIG. 6C is an example schematic that shows how the “Interested In You” component can operate in one implementation. In one embodiment, there are only five matches that are shown to a given end user per day. This could be provided in an Active Matches queue or in any other type of storage element. Other embodiments include more or less than five matches. Note that there is some intelligent coordination that can take place in such an environment. The following example illustrates such a capability or feature.

In this example, the #2 slot on Todd's list reflects a potential mate named Brooke. However, on Brooke's list of potential matches, Todd is only listed in the #8 slot. Because of his position (and assuming that only five matches will be seen by a given end user), Todd may be seen by Brooke tomorrow, or the day after that, or (in theory) never. Todd's displacement is dependent on new matches that are populated into Brooke's queue.

However, Todd can signal that he is interested in Brooke right now because she is currently occupying his second slot in the list. One positive effect of Todd signaling that he is interested in Brooke is that Brooke will generally rate Todd higher than if she would have simply seen Todd in her Active Matches. This heightened level of attractiveness is fully supported by statistical research and empirical data.

Note that this condition can be exploited in order to achieve greater dating success for the operator of the dating platform. For example, if Brooke is generally rated a “7” but only dates persons who hold a level of “7” or higher, Brooke's queue can be populated with persons having a “6” rating or higher (through manipulation of the “Interested in You” component of system 10). These people will consistently respond to Brooke's picture/profile by indicating that they are interested in her and, subsequently, she will uniformly rate these 6s much higher (e.g. as 7s or greater). Hence, one way to achieve the desired effect is to populate Todd's New Matches with Brooke: this strategy fully expects Todd to indicate that he is interested in Brooke. Once Brooke receives the signal that Todd is interested in her (i.e. Todd shows up in her “Interested in You” queue), then Brooke will rate Todd higher than his “deserved” 6 designation. Once Brooke inputs a level of interest rating sufficiently high, Todd will be placed in an “active state” (e.g. in active matches for Brooke) such that the relationship progresses to a next level. The flow in such a scenario is Interested in You (1^(st) direction), then Interested in You (2^(nd) direction), then relationship essentials, then short answers, then e-mail, and then a meeting. These stages can readily be modified or changed based on particular needs.

FIGS. 7A-H are simplified screen shots of an example listing of active matches to be used in the on-line dating platform. These people are identified by searching through the entire membership to find the individuals whose personality profile matches that of the end user. Ideally, the two matched individuals have shared values, similar goals, and complementary traits. The end user is not overwhelmed with hundreds of match possibilities: most of which would prove fruitless. Instead, the intelligent matching system brings an end user a few, highly-compatible matches to consider.

In one embodiment, the evolution of the relationship is as follows: 1) relationship essentials; 2) short answers; 3) e-mail; and 4) meet. In other embodiments, these stages are altered considerably. For example, short answer questions could begin the dating process, whereby stage two would be relationship essentials, followed by short answers and then e-mail.

FIG. 8 is a simplified screen shot of an example summary profile to be used in the on-line dating platform. FIGS. 9A-B are simplified screen shots of an example full profile to be used in the on-line dating platform. FIG. 10 is a simplified screen shot of an example matching to be used in the on-line dating platform. This FIGURE illustrates an example matching protocol.

FIG. 11 is a simplified screen shot of an example photograph to be used in the on-line dating platform. In this instance, the end user has chosen a series of photographs: some of which are more austere, whereas others are more informal and depict the end user in a more relaxed environment. The end user is also provided with the ability to select primary and secondary shots. In one example, the primary and secondary shots correspond to head shots and to body shots/action shots respectively. For real estate applications, a primary shot may be the front of the house, whereby a secondary shot is the yard or the interior of the house. Virtually any designations could be provided for primary and secondary shots in any given application (e.g. real estate, on-line dating, job applicants, etc.). The designations of primary and secondary shots here are arbitrary and have only been used in order to provide some examples (amongst many) for the audience to review.

FIG. 12 is a simplified screen shot of an example slider bar to be used in the on-line dating platform. FIG. 12 reflects Todd's high level of interest in Pam. Note that there are two components of the slider bar configuration that should be appreciated. First, the slider bar engages the end user in a benign but direct way. Second, the designation on the slider bar that is made by the end user represents a quantitative value to be understood by the operators of the web site. For example, the slider bar could have corresponding numeric values that are not visible to the end user. Hence, a high interest level could correspond to a numeric value of ‘9’ and a low interest level could be a ‘3.’

This rating scale can be used to aggregate scores and to identify an average rating value for a particular individual. For example, if Todd rated his interest level of Pam as moderately high, that designation would be correlated to an ‘8’ rating, which could be added to other end user's interest ratings of Pam. Although Todd has evaluated Pam as an ‘8,’ her true average score could be only a ‘6.’ Because Pam's aggregate score is a ‘6,’ Pam would be placed into other Active Match queues of people who are also in this 6 category. Stated differently, if Pam had an average interest rating of 6, then she would be matched with other 6s.

This matching of people with (approximately) equivalent level of interest ratings is performed because such matching yields the most success. This result has been proven through statistical data, which tracked the patterns of people who shared similar level of interest ratings. Some of this data is associated with the field of anthropology, but is nonetheless grounded in simple logic. While it is true that the person having a ‘1’ rating can successfully date a 10-rated person, this scenario (on average) is not as likely as a relationship in which two people share a 7 rating. As a total population, people having commensurate scores are more apt to move further along in a dating process than mismatched individuals.

Thus, Pam could have her Active Matches populated with other similarly rated individuals (e.g. 5s, 6s, 7s). To Pam, the choices are all relative (i.e. Pam would not necessarily realize that she is being shown nothing but 6-rated people and, accordingly, she would arbitrarily rate this group of people (e.g. as 4s, 9s, 10s, etc). This phenomenon is associated with ‘positive associative mating’, which is part of a growing body of anthropological research.

FIGS. 13A-D are simplified screen shots of example relationship essentials to be used in the on-line dating platform. The relationship essentials allow for a comparison of answers between two people. Moreover, the relationship essentials allow participants to focus on issues that matter to them. The guided communication process takes an end user through four stages of discovery. Relationship essentials help to explore what is truly important (and what is not important) in a relationship. The second stage, short answers (which is detailed below), asks the end user to respond to intriguing questions in their own words. In this example, email is the third stage, enabling an end user to begin an open correspondence with the selected matches. Stage four is the pre-date, where the end user meets the selected match in person. Note that at any stage, the potential match can be closed without questions, explanations, or awkward moments.

FIG. 14 is a simplified screen shot of an example short answer introduction to be used in the on-line dating platform. FIGS. 15A-C are simplified screen shots of example short answer questions to be used in the on-line dating platform. FIG. 16 is a simplified screen shot of an example short answer response to be used in the on-line dating platform.

There could be a multitude of questions, which could be used to explore the personalities and character traits of the participants. In one example, an end user is asked to select five of the questions: the answers of which may be important or intriguing for the end user. These are the questions that will be presented to the active match that is being targeted (in this case, the active match is Pam). Hence, a given end user is afforded the opportunity to ask probing questions about subject matter that has significant value to that particular end user. (Note that in other embodiments, the end user can develop their own questions to be asked to a potential mate. This ability to exercise creativity in querying a potential mate for certain information can be provided at various stages of the dating process.)

This level of precision in asking questions that are pertinent to the end user's fundamental value principles yields greater success in an on-line dating environment. In addition, this level of specificity and the actual question selection process is generally not provided in similar dating systems. What is imperative in this whole process is the ability to relay the information that is most important to the end user at an early stage. Consider a simple questionnaire that does not account for an end user's preferences. Questions could focus on politics in the Middle East, the most romantic city a given person has ever visited, or feelings about a person's most recent breakup. But, these questions are useless if none of these topics are vital to an end user's calculus in electing whether to pursue a relationship with another participant. The present invention addresses this issue, and others, in providing an optimal user-configurable system that resolves these deficiencies. System 10 offers flexibility to the end user by allowing them to choose the questions to be posited to a potential match.

The questions could be provided in a simple multiple choice format for purposes of simplicity. Other formats (e.g. true/false, fill in the blank, short answer, etc.) could also be readily used. Brooke would be sent this list of questions to be answered. Brooke would select her preferred responses. Both individuals (the end user and Brooke) will be completing the same questions independently without knowing how the other participant responded to these questions.

Once both parties have completed the questions, each party is then presented with the answers. More importantly, the answers of the potential mate can be viewed in the context of their own answers. This allows the end user to see exactly how the other party shares specific interests or how truly disparate responses are from one another.

Note that the answers submitted by both parties can be used by algorithms that process this feedback. For example, if Todd answered any of the short answer or multiple choice questions associated with money as “A penny saved is a penny earned” then such a response would be matched to other users who responded in a similar fashion (not necessarily verbatim, but conceptually). In this sense, there is a constant feedback loop that is present in system 10, as each piece of data is considered in the evaluation of future potential matches.

FIG. 17 is a simplified screen shot of an example “Ready To Meet” introduction to be used in the on-line dating platform. FIGS. 18A-B are simplified screen shots of an example pre-date profile and scheduling protocol to be used in the on-line dating platform. FIG. 19 is a simplified screen shot of an example pre-date confirmation to be used in the on-line dating platform. FIG. 20 is a simplified screen shot of an example suggestion of a location to meet to be used in the on-line dating platform. FIG. 21 is a simplified screen shot of an example post-date questionnaire to be used in the on-line dating platform.

After the short answer phase has been completed, the parties can agree to move to stage three, which is the e-mailing stage. Note that the end user can skip the last stage in the progression by simply e-mailing the other party in order to determine whether or not the other party would feel comfortable meeting sooner. If the other party agrees to skip stage three, then both participants can progress together to a potential meeting.

Note that both participants input their zip codes when their profiles are established. The platform can take that address information and use it to find an optimal dating location. Both participants can also provide contact information such that if either person is running late or needs to cancel the meeting, the other person can be notified. A pre-date is a short, low-pressure, in-person meeting between an end user and the selected match. The pre-date may be thought of as an intermediate step between email and a full-fledged date, which may be inclusive of dinner. System 10 can work to find a mutually-convenient time and location for the meeting, but the end user is welcome to suggest a time or place that works better for the two participants. Both participants can designate their availability and their general dating preferences. This information generally will be used to find a mutually convenient time and place for participants to meet. Except for the details regarding availability, this information will not be shared with the potential match.

Hence, system 10 can operate to integrate the schedules and preferences together in order to identify a mutually agreeable location. The first date location could be a coffee shop, a restaurant, a bar, a park, a library, or any other appropriate location for these individuals to meet. Hence, a simple coffee encounter could be replaced by a lunch, a dinner, a movie, a round of drinks, etc. Note that a simple call could be placed twenty minutes after the date has begun in order to signal that the date should end. In other embodiments, a call could be placed to extricate someone from a terrible dating experience. This could be done in the context of a longer date, whereas one person is simply not enjoying the dating experience and the date is scheduled to continue for several more hours.

By setting up a call in the first scenario (i.e. a coffee encounter), the onus is then removed from either party to truncate this initial meeting. Note that voice-mail or text messages can be sent to either user in cases where an individual is running late or cannot make the pre-date meeting. The appropriate contact information could be provided in the pre-date profile stage. The platform can autonomously trigger a query for both participants in order confirm that the date occurred. If it has, then the system offers a final feedback opportunity for both participants. Hence, once the date has concluded, both parties can return to their computers and signal their thoughts on how the date occurred. A series of questions can be used in order to solicit important responses from the end user. For example, a given end user could be asked: 1) Was your date on time? 2) Was she interesting? 3) Was she a good listener? 4) How was the chemistry between the two of you? 5) Was she well-mannered or polite? 6) Did her photo match her appearance? Chemistry is an essential quality of every successful relationship. The sooner an end user can find out if there is chemistry between him and the selected match, the sooner the end user will know whether or not this is a relationship worth pursuing.

The most important question of the post-date follow up could relate to whether or not the end user cares to see this person again. Note that the responses from the post-date follow up are an invaluable tool for the operator of the website. The responses reflect important character traits that can be fed back into the system for future matches. In addition, the operator can offer constructive feedback to an end user who appears to be struggling in some area. Thus, a cumulative average (e.g. after three or more dates) could be taken of several questions, whereby a single area can be pin-pointed for improvement. This is verifiable, informative, and truthful dating information for the end user to consider. Note that such a “dating report card” is simply missing in the area of on-line dating. In some cases, an end user may only need to tweak certain aspects of his dating makeup in order to achieve the desired result. For example, a given end user may be habitually late or he may not dress appropriately. By admonishing him (in a professional way) about these deficiencies, he can correct these inadequacies in order to increase the likelihood of him finding a successful relationship. In other scenarios, the end user may be counseled on how to better highlight his strengths in his profile or how to better phrase questions for potential matches. Thus, such dating advice is highly specific and, furthermore, could extend to any of the components identified herein in this patent application.

In one embodiment, in cases where the date went extremely well, the other end user is only shown a positive sentiment associated with the encounter. The results of each question are not necessarily sent over to the other side in this particular embodiment. Other embodiments may include a full disclosure of the exact responses from the reciprocating end user. In cases where the end user has scored poorly in the post date follow up questionnaire, that negative information can be minimized or toned-down in order to spare the feelings of the other person. In such an instance, the end user receiving the negative feedback would only receive a benign message signaling that his counterpart did not enjoy herself or that she would simply not be interested in pursuing a future relationship with this person. Note that using such a protocol obviates concerns of those individuals who are reluctant to answer post date feedback questions honestly for fear that those responses would be shown to the other participant.

Another component of the present invention allows the end user to turn ON or display their own feedback such that other users can see how this person is generally reviewed. The person whose feedback will be made public can have the option of participating in such an arrangement or elect to keep this information confidential. In this arrangement, other members of the on-line community can see how this person is systematically reviewed (e.g. after 3-5 dates). For example, the end user may be consistently reviewed by others as “a good listener” which may be the very quality that certain persons are seeking. Other feedback could include items such as: “his photograph was accurate” or “he was 20 minutes late.” virtually any information can be shown to the on-line community, whereby a certain amount of control is exercised by the person whose information is about to be disclosed to the public. This feature allows for greater transparency for other members of the on-line dating community, as truthful information is being presented for other end users to consider.

Yet another feature of system 10 relates to a limited search tool, which can be executed by a given end user. The term “limited” in this context only relates to the operator's desire to confine or to restrict such searching capabilities. In other embodiments, the end user may be able to freely search: unfettered by restrictions imposed by an operator.

This freedom to search for any type of person allows a person to express interest in people that he would not otherwise find (i.e. that would not be sent to his “Interested in You” tab). For example, the end user may elect to go outside his normal criteria in search of a potential mate. In a similar fashion, the person identified in the search may not be expecting to see such an individual in her “Interested in You” box. Consider a case where the identified woman in this case is adamant about not dating people who smoke and the person performing the limited search is a smoker. She will see this particular end user in her “Interested in You” tab and wonder if she has configured her preferences properly.

One way to address this lack of congruency is to provide an additional tab (or a sub-tab) for her in order to indicate that there are other people (outside her normal circle of interest) that have expressed interest in her. Thus, a simple “Other Interested in You” tab could be provided for her and she could elect whether or not to engage this person in conversation or questions, etc. In another embodiment, there is not a special tab for these (unexpected) individuals and the receiving party can simply ignore these end users or archive these individuals immediately.

FIG. 22 is a simplified screen shot of an example limited search criteria template to be used in the on-line dating service. In one embodiment, the search component includes a first section (e.g. basic search criteria) and a second section (e.g. an advanced search criteria). Basic search criteria include rudimentary parameters such as demographics, height, weight, etc. Advanced search criteria are more involved, as they pertain to more conceptual queries (e.g. a desire to have a big family, thoughts about money, political outlook, etc.).

In operation of an example flow, consider a case where there are five new matches in the Active Matches tab and an end user indicates that he has interest in only one of the five (the other four being sent to the archive). The end user can be afforded the opportunity to perform one limited search (e.g. one per day) in order to identify other participants who meet specific criteria in which he is interested. For example, the end user may have detailed criteria concerning the age, physical activity level, and education of a potential mate. Criteria can include any of the profile information identified herein. The search criteria can also include any of the items illustrated in FIG. 22 (or any of the items provided in the other FIGURES included with this patent application). Other parameters of interest to a given end user could readily be used for search purposes and, thus, are included within the broad scope of the present invention. The present invention is replete with any such alternatives and, accordingly, should be construed as such.

The platform allows the end user to search the system using any selected parameters and, further, the platform can re-populate the Active Matches list with these newly discovered individuals. The limited search can be run on central web site 18 or on supplemental web site 20 or be executed on other devices (e.g. end user devices).

FIGS. 23A-S are simplified screen shots of an example introductory phase to be used in the on-line dating service. FIG. 23A illustrates an example home page for initiating the dating experience. FIG. 23B depicts an example personality profile set-up, while FIG. 23C illustrates a core questionnaire component of the platform in which en user's are asked questions about their fundamental ideologies. Universal traits are queried in the segment illustrated by FIG. 23D.

FIG. 23E illustrates a non-verbal communication screen shot in which a person is asked to give their interpretation of a particular scene. This information can be used in processing and generating an accurate profile for a given individual. FIG. 23F relates to sensory perception, as the end user is asked to complete a quick test under a time constraint. FIG. 23G relates to a biophysical profile for the end user, who is asked to describe their own hand.

FIG. 23H simply queries the end user for his preferences for ethnicity, religion, etc. It should also be noted that an accompanying slider bar is provided to gauge the importance of each of these qualities. FIG. 23I illustrates a dual-slider bar in which two elements are considered together. A profile headline and essay are requested in FIG. 23J, which solicits additional thoughts from the end user.

FIGS. 23K-L illustrate how two people are matched using all of the information provided previously. This intelligent matching is a result of numerous algorithms and (potentially) judgment calls or configurations made by managers of the platform. The weight of this information may be based on anthropological considerations, scientific studies, levels of testosterone/estrogen, and/or any other designation (which may be simply a choice made by one or more operators of the web site). Considerable flexibility is provided by the platform of the present invention, as virtually any parameter may be evaluated, considered, and accorded a selected weight for purposes of enhancing the dating experience for the individual.

FIG. 23M illustrates this particular end user's personality traits as compared to his counterpart (Liz). Note that in this case (as illustrated by the graphical illustration), there is good congruency in character traits between these two individuals. FIG. 23N illustrates how the end user is prompted to send their relationship essentials to a potential match. FIGS. 23O-P illustrate an end user selecting seven (7) relationship essentials to be sent to their dating counterpart. FIGS. 23Q-R illustrate an example relationship essentials layout. A number of slider bars are provided to make end user selections in this regard. Finally, FIG. 23S illustrates a solicitation for responding to Todd's relationship essentials.

As evidenced by FIGS. 23A-S and by the accompanying description, this introductory phase focuses on the true interests and preferences of members of the on-line dating community. The information gathered is solicited in different ways and is highly interactive. Moreover, such tests are fun and easy to complete, as the end user can quickly navigate thought these preliminary steps. However, their simplicity should not hide their significance; these tests provide critical information that is to be used in addressing compatibility issues and, furthermore, enhancing the chances of long-term dating success.

FIGS. 24A-G are simplified screen shots of an example pre-date phase to be used in the on-line dating service. FIGS. 24A-B illustrate a number of graphical depictions for determining availability, eating preferences, etc. the end users involved in this pre-date scenario. Once these items have been completed, a pre-date request is then sent to the platform. FIG. 24C illustrates an optional message (for a potential match) that can be included in the pre-date request. FIG. 24D illustrates what the dating counterpart would see after the pre-date request is sent. The end user receiving this message can elect to accept this date or the end user can suggest alternative locations for this meeting, which is further detailed by FIG. 24E. FIG. 24F illustrates a pre-date confirmation for these two parties. FIG. 24G illustrates the situation identified above, where a personal message has been provided (“Hey, let's meet . . . ) and the other party has the option of declining the invitation. In cases where the end user would not feel comfortable with a date at this point, she can elect to continue with the e-mailing process.

Some of the steps illustrated in the preceding FIGURES may be changed or deleted where appropriate and additional steps may also be added to the process flows. These changes may be based on specific communication architectures or particular interfacing arrangements and configurations of associated elements and do not depart from the scope or the teachings of the present invention. It is important to recognize that the FIGURES illustrate just one of a myriad of potential implementations of system 10.

Although the present invention has been described in detail with reference to particular embodiments, it should be understood that various other changes, substitutions, and alterations may be made hereto without departing from the spirit and scope of the present invention. For example, although the present invention has been described with reference to a dating protocol, any service that deals with (or that leverages) photos could readily benefit from the present invention.

Moreover, although the present invention has been described with reference to a number of elements included within system 10, these elements may be rearranged or positioned in any appropriate manner to accommodate any suitable networking configurations. In addition, any of the elements of FIG. 1 may be provided as separate external components to system 10 or to each other where appropriate.

It should also be noted that any of the question portions of the platform can leverage any type of format. Thus, in establishing a personality profile, in generating a pre-date profile, in executing relationship essentials, in answering short answer questions, any suitable question format can be employed. Example formats include a Yes/No format, a multiple choice question format, a short answer format, a true/false format, etc. Other formats can readily be used in order to achieve the desired responses.

Additionally, it should be noted that the dual-slider bar configuration (as depicted in FIGS. 21 and 23I) can be used in any segment of the on-line dating process. For example, such a dual-axis rating component may be used in the profile or feedback stages. Other operations of the platform could readily employ such an arrangement, whereby two items are evaluated together (one on the X-axis and another on the Y-axis).

Numerous other changes, substitutions, variations, alterations, and modifications may be ascertained to one skilled in the art and it is intended that the present invention encompass all such changes, substitutions, variations, alterations, and modifications as falling within the scope of the appended claims. 

1. An apparatus, comprising: a server configured to: interface with one or more end users; and manage information related to one or more of the end users, wherein the server includes: a pre-date component that comprises a set of questions for a first end user and a second end user to complete in order to provide preferences for a meeting between the first end user and the second end user, and wherein the preferences include at least a time characteristic and a location characteristic for the meeting, wherein the preferences are used as a basis to offer suggestions for the meeting, and wherein at least some of the suggestions are ratified by the first and second end users; and a post-date component that comprises a set of questions for one or more of the end users to complete in order to provide answers associated with the meeting that took place between the first end user and the second end user, wherein at least one of the post-date questions queries both of the end users as to whether they would like to meet again, and wherein at least some of the answers provided by the first end user are communicated to the second end user, and at least some of the answers provided by the first end user are filtered by a third party entity and edited before being communicated to the second end user.
 2. The apparatus of claim 1, wherein the questions are in a multiple choice question format, a true/false format, or a yes/no format.
 3. The apparatus of claim 1, wherein the answers are compiled and aggregated by the server in order to identify trends for or tendencies of one or more of the end users.
 4. The apparatus of claim 1, wherein the server is associated with a job seeking service, a person finder service, an athletic service, a real estate service, an academic service, a real estate finding service, or an escort service.
 5. The apparatus of claim 1, wherein the server is configured to offer an option to the first end user to have his feedback information displayed to selected end users.
 6. The apparatus of claim 1, wherein the server is configured to facilitate an on-line dating operation such that one or more of the end users are capable of interacting in order to find candidates that match their interests.
 7. The apparatus of claim 1, wherein the server includes an interest rating component that allows one or more of the end users to indicate a level of interest in one or more of the other end users.
 8. The apparatus of claim 1, wherein the server automatically generates a query to the first end user to confirm whether or not the meeting occurred.
 9. A non-transitory method for providing a feature in a network environment in which a processor is involved in exchanging internet protocol (IP) packets, comprising: interfacing with one or more end users; managing information related to one or more of the end users; and providing: a pre-date component that comprises a set of questions for a first end user and a second end user to complete in order to provide preferences for a meeting between the first end user and the second end user, and wherein the preferences include at least a time characteristic and a location characteristic for the meeting, wherein the preferences are used as a basis to offer suggestions for the meeting, and wherein at least some the suggestions are ratified by the first and second end users; and a post-date component that comprises a set of questions for one or more of the end users to complete in order to provide answers associated with the meeting that took place between the first end user and the second end user, wherein at least one of the post-date questions queries both of the end users as to whether they would like to meet again, and wherein at least some of the answers provided by the first end user are communicated to the second end user, and at least some of the answers provided by the first end user are filtered by a third party entity and edited before being communicated to the second end user.
 10. The method of claim 9, wherein the questions are in a multiple choice question format, a true/false format, or a yes/no format, and wherein the answers are compiled and aggregated in order to identify trends for or tendencies of one or more of the end users.
 11. The method of claim 9, wherein the meeting is associated with a job seeking service, a person finder service, an athletic service, a real estate service, an academic service, a real estate finding service, or an escort service.
 12. The method of claim 9, wherein an option is offered to the first end user to have his feedback information displayed to selected end users.
 13. The method of claim 9, further comprising: providing a central configured to facilitate an on-line dating operation such that one or more of the end users are capable of interacting in order to find candidates that match their interests.
 14. The method of claim 9, further comprising: providing an interest rating component that allows one or more of the end users to indicate a level of interest in one or more of the other end users.
 15. The method of claim 9, further comprising: generating a query for the first end user to confirm whether or not the meeting occurred.
 16. The method of claim 9, further comprising: storing the information in a profile for one or more of the end users such that the end users can access the profile and review the information. 